Boy, I step away for twelve hours and all hell breaks loose.
Hi, Sarah. Thank you for taking your time to post in this thread and to share your side of the story. As the one who tore your husband's post apart, first let me say that I offered my comments solely for the furtherance of discussion about this matter on this forum. It was never my intention to spur other people on to threatening your business, or harassing you in any fashion. For what it's worth, I can assure you that I was not one of those people. I was looking at what Jeremy wrote, and what didn't seem to make sense about what he wrote. At that time, all we had were two stories, without the support of further evidence. My comparison of Jeremy's "behavior" to that of criminals was merely to point out that ardor in professing one's innocence could swing either way: guilty people frequently decry the accusations against them, often as a matter of course. But of course, people who are wrongfully accused do too, and have every right to. I can accept that Jeremy was shooting from the hip (no pun intended), and may have written things out of anger that, in retrospect, didn't make as much sense as he thought they did when he wrote them.
Although I had no direct part in any of the harassment you have received, I am nevertheless sorry you have been experiencing it. I am also sorry that after taking the time to thoughtfully explain your position in a cool-headed, well thought-out and well-written manner, you were still met with skepticism, condescension, and rudeness by some of the members of this forum. That is unfortunate. Speaking only for myself, I appreciate your time and effort to explain this to a group of people whose opinions, ultimately, don't have any relevance to the basic dispute at issue. We're just observers who have no direct stake in this matter. You don't owe us anything. (Although, to the extent that some of our members are harassing you, I can see why you felt the need to address us.)
What you say makes sense, and you have shown a lot of documentation to support your side, including evidence that goes directly to my earlier comment of whether Jeremy could prove "Justin" was telling different stories in different places. You strike me as credible. You've also shown grace under fire. I think some of the questions and criticisms leveled at you, such as why didn't you take a picture of the watch you received, or what's up with that AD's letter, are a bit unfair. It's easy to be a Monday morning quarterback; the fact is, we weren't in your position. Also, it seems evident neither you nor Jeremy are watch enthusiasts like we are, and I think it's unreasonable to evaluate your behavior with the expectation that you should act like we would in the same situation. As for the AD's letter, I can't tell you how many posts there are on this forum talking about how so many ADs don't know their ass from a hat; it is no surprise to me that you may have found one who is a little sloppy with the finer details. That doesn't mean the letter is bogus, or that the AD's general observations are not valid. Furthermore, you're exactly right: you're not an attorney. Whether you use the term "slander" in place of "libel," or what have you, makes no difference in the price of tea in China as far as the validity of your claim goes. I think if we step back and evaluate your story as a whole, rather than gratuitously picking on small details, we can see that it holds together. There are some definite questions that need answering, but it would seem you have the same questions we do.
I don't have a bone in this fight, except that I don't like to see anyone get scammed - whether it be a seller or a buyer. I do not know either party. To the extent that he cares what this community thinks, I think the OP needs to weigh in and answer some questions, because the evidence has taken a clear turn, in my opinion. I can see that I (and I believe many of us) rushed to judgment, although, to be fair, we were looking at the evidence we had before us at the time. So as not to rush to judgment again, I'm going to step back and see how this goes before I make up my mind either way. However, in my opinion, Sarah has made some strong points, and both she and Jeremy deserve to be heard out, fairly and with respect. The same goes for the OP. I also agree with Tom: the harassment and threats to Sarah's and Jeremy's business are wholly inappropriate and have got to stop.
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