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The majority of the people I know who like you describe want relationships to have someone to "prop them up" financially or emotionally. The rest (myself included) just can't be bothered with the hassle/baggage of a relationship because they're too busy doing all the things that make them independent, and they really don't want anyone around that might mess that up. Trying to find someone both worthwhile pursuing and actually interested in a relationship is probably very difficult.


Disclaimer: I don't know you at all (anez, Justin, all other disenfranchised daters) and I really can't comment directly on what makes you happy so the views expressed below are wholly uninformed. But...

I'd be inclined to say that the sentiment expressed above, and elsewhere in this extremely off-topic thread, ( :poke: ) are just a tad too cynical. What's described here is that the majority of the world is comprised of users - something that I just can't agree with. There are too many good people in this world to discount the possibility that there is someone out there for you. It might not be at this time and place in your life, but I guarantee you there are good people out there. I disagree that dating someone precludes you from having success in your own life, provided you have the right partner. I've learned that I'm worth the time and effort it takes to find someone who will not only make me a better person, but allows me to reciprocate and make her a better person. I do believe that it's possible to be a couple whose whole is greater than the sum of its parts.

In the end, "success" can only be measured by the individual's happiness so please take no offense to my comments above. I'm merely trying to counteract a little bit of the cynicism with some hope :wink:

By the way, this comes from someone currently dating and in love :lovesloves: so I might be a bit biased :wink:

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Iantheklutz wrote:
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The majority of the people I know who like you describe want relationships to have someone to "prop them up" financially or emotionally. The rest (myself included) just can't be bothered with the hassle/baggage of a relationship because they're too busy doing all the things that make them independent, and they really don't want anyone around that might mess that up. Trying to find someone both worthwhile pursuing and actually interested in a relationship is probably very difficult.


Disclaimer: I don't know you at all (anez, Justin, all other disenfranchised daters) and I really can't comment directly on what makes you happy so the views expressed below are wholly uninformed. But...

I'd be inclined to say that the sentiment expressed above, and elsewhere in this extremely off-topic thread, ( :poke: ) are just a tad too cynical. What's described here is that the majority of the world is comprised of users - something that I just can't agree with. There are too many good people in this world to discount the possibility that there is someone out there for you. It might not be at this time and place in your life, but I guarantee you there are good people out there. I disagree that dating someone precludes you from having success in your own life, provided you have the right partner. I've learned that I'm worth the time and effort it takes to find someone who will not only make me a better person, but allows me to reciprocate and make her a better person. I do believe that it's possible to be a couple whose whole is greater than the sum of its parts.

In the end, "success" can only be measured by the individual's happiness so please take no offense to my comments above. I'm merely trying to counteract a little bit of the cynicism with some hope :wink:

By the way, this comes from someone currently dating and in love :lovesloves: so I might be a bit biased :wink:



This is a heck of a long way off topic and I have been trying to avoid comment, but I think that there is not only cynicism, but sweeping generalizations going on that do not consider that every situation is different.

For the record, I have been on the young end of a breach of the half plus seven 'rule'. There were no issues with the relationship, there was no baggage on either side, and age was a much bigger issue for other people than for her or I.


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"Sweeping generalizations" would be an understatement. Personally, I know a LOT more women than men that have their acts together. That would include both my ex-wife and my wife.

If all you're finding are women with their heads up their arses, perhaps it's time to look elsewhere. If you're bottom fishing, all your going to catch are bottom dwellers.

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Considering we broached the concept of "bling=vagin" on page two of this thread, how far off topic are we, really? :poke:


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For the record, I have been on the young end of a breach of the half plus seven 'rule'. There were no issues with the relationship, there was no baggage on either side, and age was a much bigger issue for other people than for her or I.


Hey, what's the point of having rules if there aren't exceptions?????

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Personally, I know a LOT more women than men that have their acts together. That would include both my ex-wife and my wife.


I can go with the first half.

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Iantheklutz wrote:
Disclaimer: I don't know you at all (anez, Justin, all other disenfranchised daters) and I really can't comment directly on what makes you happy so the views expressed below are wholly uninformed. But...

I'd be inclined to say that the sentiment expressed above, and elsewhere in this extremely off-topic thread, ( :poke: ) are just a tad too cynical. What's described here is that the majority of the world is comprised of users - something that I just can't agree with. There are too many good people in this world to discount the possibility that there is someone out there for you. It might not be at this time and place in your life, but I guarantee you there are good people out there. I disagree that dating someone precludes you from having success in your own life, provided you have the right partner. I've learned that I'm worth the time and effort it takes to find someone who will not only make me a better person, but allows me to reciprocate and make her a better person. I do believe that it's possible to be a couple whose whole is greater than the sum of its parts.

In the end, "success" can only be measured by the individual's happiness so please take no offense to my comments above. I'm merely trying to counteract a little bit of the cynicism with some hope :wink:

By the way, this comes from someone currently dating and in love :lovesloves: so I might be a bit biased :wink:


I certainly never meant to imply there aren't good people out there-- there are, of both genders, and I've been lucky enough to know plenty of them.

However, knowing good people doesn't automatically mean you want to be in a relationship with them. Never say never, as they say, because you always end up making a prat of yourself later, but it's my personal belief that some people are much happier single. It really has more to do with the individual's desire for autonomy and freedom and than the lack of good people in the world. I've been very lucky in my life and never had any horrible crash-and-burn relationships, but I've found I do prefer not having to always include another person's perspective/opinions/needs/feelings in all of my decisions. It's hugely selfish, of course, but so long as it's not being selfish and the expense of some other poor unfortunate, I think it's excusable. :twisted:


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anez wrote:
Iantheklutz wrote:
Disclaimer: I don't know you at all (anez, Justin, all other disenfranchised daters) and I really can't comment directly on what makes you happy so the views expressed below are wholly uninformed. But...

I'd be inclined to say that the sentiment expressed above, and elsewhere in this extremely off-topic thread, ( :poke: ) are just a tad too cynical. What's described here is that the majority of the world is comprised of users - something that I just can't agree with. There are too many good people in this world to discount the possibility that there is someone out there for you. It might not be at this time and place in your life, but I guarantee you there are good people out there. I disagree that dating someone precludes you from having success in your own life, provided you have the right partner. I've learned that I'm worth the time and effort it takes to find someone who will not only make me a better person, but allows me to reciprocate and make her a better person. I do believe that it's possible to be a couple whose whole is greater than the sum of its parts.

In the end, "success" can only be measured by the individual's happiness so please take no offense to my comments above. I'm merely trying to counteract a little bit of the cynicism with some hope :wink:

By the way, this comes from someone currently dating and in love :lovesloves: so I might be a bit biased :wink:


I certainly never meant to imply there aren't good people out there-- there are, of both genders, and I've been lucky enough to know plenty of them.

However, knowing good people doesn't automatically mean you want to be in a relationship with them. Never say never, as they say, because you always end up making a prat of yourself later, but it's my personal belief that some people are much happier single. It really has more to do with the individual's desire for autonomy and freedom and than the lack of good people in the world. I've been very lucky in my life and never had any horrible crash-and-burn relationships, but I've found I do prefer not having to always include another person's perspective/opinions/needs/feelings in all of my decisions. It's hugely selfish, of course, but so long as it's not being selfish and the expense of some other poor unfortunate, I think it's excusable. :twisted:



Ahhh, the BEST part of life is we get to grow and change. When I was 40 and looked back at the stuff I believed at 30, it was almost embarssing. "Almost" because being embarrased denies the importance of where we were and how we got here.

OH, just to take it back "on topic," I'm thinking aout a solid gold medallion - about 10" across, on a chain, with a solid gold Motors - just the head mind you - welded to the middle. Then ice the crap out of the whole thing. Thoughts? Could use some help here.

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OH, just to take it back "on topic," I'm thinking aout a solid gold medallion - about 10" across, on a chain, with a solid gold Motors - just the head mind you - welded to the middle. Then ice the crap out of the whole thing. Thoughts? Could use some help here.


Be sure to place it upside-down before welding it on to make it easier to check the time when you're wearing it, like a nurse. :lol:


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OH, just to take it back "on topic," I'm thinking aout a solid gold medallion - about 10" across, on a chain, with a solid gold Motors - just the head mind you - welded to the middle. Then ice the crap out of the whole thing. Thoughts? Could use some help here.


Love it. Can we make this the next BreitlingSource LE?

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OH, just to take it back "on topic," I'm thinking aout a solid gold medallion - about 10" across, on a chain, with a solid gold Motors - just the head mind you - welded to the middle. Then ice the crap out of the whole thing. Thoughts? Could use some help here.

Are you also going to drive a pimped out Nissan, with primer paint job and sans hood?


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OH, just to take it back "on topic," I'm thinking aout a solid gold medallion - about 10" across, on a chain, with a solid gold Motors - just the head mind you - welded to the middle. Then ice the crap out of the whole thing. Thoughts? Could use some help here.

Are you also going to drive a pimped out Nissan, with primer paint job and sans hood?

Only if it can be a low rider. And an Escalate for my posse.

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Only if it can be a low rider. And an Escalate for my posse.

Nissan and Escalade just don't mix. If they're in an Escalade, you've got to up your ride. But if you wanna stick with the Nissan, you could get them a ghetto Previa with sweet custom lighting and spinning hubcaps.


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I won't be friends with you Tom if you don't get a spinner on it. :lol:

I'm with Anez on the off topic statements. I have met awesome people, whom are now my best friends. The women, are all married as they are super awesome. Too late I suppose.

kstone, how do I end up with the botton dwellers when I'm fly fishing, water too shallow? :oops:


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